Posted by
Steve on Saturday, December 13, 2008 9:19:34 AM
Proposition 102 passed almost 6 weeks ago. There are still protests from the gay community over its passage. In fact, there were even editorials in the Arizona Republic this morning about proposition 102 and what it meant. To me, this is just amazing. I would never have thought that we would be having these kinds of discussions and demonstrations over a month after the vote.
Proposition 102 had one agenda and only one agenda. That agenda was to confirm in the Arizona Constitution that marriage in Arizona was between one man and one woman. That is the way it has been since Arizona was made a state and so it shall remain. The purpose of putting it in the Arizona Constitution was to make sure that no Supreme Court justice would declare it unconstitutional. We have a law that says exactly what the new prop 102 amendment says, but it is just a law and some judge could overturn the will of the people. To avoid that, we had to put it in the Arizona Constitution.
Since marriage was started, thousands of years ago, it has meant that it was between one man and one woman. There have been some cultures where polygamy was practiced. But, even there, marriage was between men and women, not men and men or women and women.
What is the purpose of marriage? The purpose of a marriage is to bring children into the world and to raise them to adulthood. Traditionally this has meant that it required one man and one woman to get together to produce children. To protect the children and the rights of the mother who raised them, marriage was started. This gave the mother and children the right to the income of the father (the traditional breadwinner). Religions embrace marriage because a strong marriage makes strong religious people and that makes a strong religion. The state recognizes marriage because it is in the best interest of the state to encourage the production of children and their protection to adulthood.
Gay people are asking that we recognize “marriage” between two people of the same sex. On the surface, this may sound reasonable. But, it is not reasonable from the perspective of the state. There is no interest in a union of two men or two women from the perspective of the state. They are not going to produce children and therefore not raise them to adulthood. There is no need to protect the rights of the children produced and the parent that raises the children as no children can be expected. Now, I do know that two women can have children by artificial means. But, that is actually introducing a “man” into the situation. The state cannot and should not concern itself with things that are not “natural”. In other words, the state should concern itself with matters that would concern “both” parents. If these mothers who have children by artificial methods want to include the “father” in the matter, then the state would need to get involved. Since they do not want the father involved, the state should not be involved.
Proposition 102 said nothing about homosexuals. It was not aimed at homosexuals. Homosexuals still h have the same rights as anyone else to marry someone of the opposite sex. Homosexual people say that they do not want to marry someone of the opposite sex. They want to marry someone of the same sex. As far as the state is concerned, that is not a “marriage”. If they want the state to recognize this union, they should advocate for some type of arrangement and call it something other than marriage. The term marriage is when men and women marry each other. In England, they call an arrangement of two people of the same sex a “civil union”. That works in England and would work here. You can give “civil unions” the same “rights” as marriages, just do not call it a marriage and everyone will be happy.
This is why I do not understand all the protesting over proposition 8 in California and proposition 102 here. If they want a marriage type situation, just work for something called a civil union and nobody would fight you over it. You could have that tomorrow. But, it is more fun to equate the civil rights movement with the gay agenda. That way they feel important. The civil rights movement was to correct a real problem of discrimination. The gay agenda is just an attempt to create a problem where one does not exist. When you saw a black person, you knew they were black and could discriminate against them. When you see a gay person, you have no idea the person is gay unless that person tells you they are gay. As far as I am concerned, that is more information than I want to know about the person.
I know that some of my students are gay. I do not ask and I could not tell you which ones are gay. I did have one student self identify himself as gay and he told me that he appreciated the way I taught the class. I thanked him and asked why. He said because he was treated just like every other student. He said he would spread the word in the gay community that I was a teacher that they could trust to be fair. If he knew my religion, he might wonder. But, I always treat my students how they want to be treated. I start out treating them all as adults and continue to do so until they act up. Then, they get treated as the child they are acting like.